tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7003287470150865297.post2822392312836145184..comments2023-05-22T10:04:20.280+01:00Comments on Gone Beading: Rollercoaster report of the weekRedSetterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16273883309628093072noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7003287470150865297.post-15431777091495658222014-07-07T23:09:14.714+01:002014-07-07T23:09:14.714+01:00I am so sorry to hear that you are going through a...I am so sorry to hear that you are going through all of this. I truly hope that things start to improve soon. Of course I have no idea really about the situation with your Mum, so please feel free just to tell me to shove off, but if you can and if it is appropriate, take some time for yourself to remember that you are important in all of this. If you take too much of this on your health will suffer even more and then you will be of less help and support when it really is needed. I know that it is easy to say this, but please believe me that I know what a difference taking even a little step back can make if it is possible to do just that. Even occasionally helps. Also, these dreadful illnesses do terrible things to lovely people, it is so very hard to deal with, and I am sure that the staff caring for your Mum and your friends and family all know and understand the situation and do not think that it is anything that you have done or not done on purpose. I am just saying all of this to try and be of some support and reassurance, not to upset you, so I hope that it helps. Thinking of you, sending good thoughts and best wishes, and most importantly of all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! xxxxAmy at love made my homehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17111180584250029433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7003287470150865297.post-80304048741957899412014-07-07T22:17:37.530+01:002014-07-07T22:17:37.530+01:00Oh my goodness you are going through a dreadful ph...Oh my goodness you are going through a dreadful phase, but you must know that this will pass perhaps not soon but it will pass. Your illness will get better and then you will feel more in control again. I hope your poor cat gets better soon, its a worry when our pets are ill. I agree with another commentor that you must not blame yourself for your mum. Assuming she wasn't like this before, it can only be an illness which i'm sure her carers understand. You must get healthy again and to do that you must look after yourself and not worry about things you cannot do anything about. I hope all gets back to some kind of normality again for you soon. xMarksgranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02870471905590321642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7003287470150865297.post-13633697959687336832014-07-06T17:19:25.514+01:002014-07-06T17:19:25.514+01:00Oh dear, what a time you've been having. Makes...Oh dear, what a time you've been having. Makes my lack of job worries seem quite daft! It sounds like you have some good friends to help out and I really hope life gets better soon... hopefully from here things can only get better :)Louisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16043065727770116407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7003287470150865297.post-53517635115818024062014-07-06T16:29:12.806+01:002014-07-06T16:29:12.806+01:00I am so sorry times are so tough, it is good that ...I am so sorry times are so tough, it is good that you are getting it all written down as that is a very Zen move on your part. Get it out of your system. I swear being the main participant in my parents lives it isn't easy. You can not blame yourself for your Mom's actions, ,it is her illness, certainly her caregivers understand this. You are also not to blame for your knee, it simply is what it is and you are doing all you can to get better. I am sending you a prayer for strength and patience, peace and joy and of course for healing for you and your cat.<br />Hang in there, and you know I already wished you a Happy B-day.<br />MeredithMereknitshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04596140300034854370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7003287470150865297.post-18115494229527981372014-07-06T15:15:31.450+01:002014-07-06T15:15:31.450+01:00Oh dear what a dredful phase you are going through...Oh dear what a dredful phase you are going through. I do hope you will feel better physically soon as then you might be able to deal better with all the other stuff. I hope too that your cat will get well soon as I know only too well how much that kind of worry can take you down. It sounds as if you really need a few minutes of me time in there even if only to run away to an imaginary hidey hole - it's what I do in similar circumstances!! Just to stop the world for a moment and take a breath - though that's not easy when you are suffering from a respiratory problem! Thanks for you comment on my latest post - what a shame you couldn't come with me for an outing just to escape for a while isn't it?!Marigold Jamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02895195019277206960noreply@blogger.com